Hello Guys,
Im here to take some advice from all of you awesome people in soompi :). Heres my story.
Well ive been with my girl for 5 years. Though we had some ups and downs, we maintained a happy and strong relationship. Well.. ill be honest with you guys
the girl im with is really.. the nicest way I describe is sensitive. When I mean sensitive she gets doesnt seem to have a very strong outershell to protect herself from mean things people say to her and she just becomes too emotional I guess. I tried helping her cope with it but in the end she had to be in therapy. Well on the the main problem:
Just a few weeks ago, I had a falling out with her. We had a huge argument. Its due to the fact she is becoming a different person and then she says im a different person . She seems more inclined to keep everything to herself rather than us having a discussion about it (which we always used to do). Also theres an ongoing issue with her for the past year that ive tried to get her to stop, which is hanging out with just 1 particular guy who seemed too interested in her. WAY too interested in her. Like literally he tried hitting on her when knowing she has me, tried to give her a necklace, and etc. I wanted to give him a piece of my mind by obviously talking to him but she was like "no no were just friends, he knows it". Fast forward to the falling out, she told me that we should take a break.. out of nowhere.. while im at work... it caused me so much pain but i had to agree. Cant fight it.
Now.. 2 weeks after when she told me we should go on a break, I got to thinking, (because she removed me off facebook, twitter and instragram). I wonder if i followed the guy whos been pursuing her for the past year. I made a fake account (call me crazy :/) and I followed him on twitter... keep in mind his account is protected and also my account was a fake, fakes pictures and info etc.
He then accepted which blew my effin mind. Literally the first few posts that I saw since we had a falling out was about her.. pictures of her literally floated in his twitter. Like... pictures with the word bae (before anyone else) which is what we used to call each other. I literally dropped on my knees as I soaked in what was happening. I saw picture of them in a room together, her holding his head.. this was over the course of febuary 2014 till now. Like.. wtf was I to her, so many thoughts ran in my mind. Another thing is that they call themselves king and queen, apparently its some BS that they do for some group or something with their friends.
Right now, I just honestly need to talk to someone. Sorry for such a long story and do tell me if some of things I said doesnt make sense. Im literally feeling like Ive been wrecked.
Sorry for the long posts, and I hope to see your guys thoughts :).
EDIT: Also the on the guys twitter, it has "Happy 11 months bae , happy 3 months bae and etc". I know who its obviously directed to. We havent spoken in a while due to the break and well.. right know im trying to keep my time occupied by self improvement by exercising (running for 5k a day), just having fun playing games with my friends and "trying" to learn japanese. But in the back of my mind.. it still hurts and I keep thinking about it.
Im here to take some advice from all of you awesome people in soompi :). Heres my story.
Well ive been with my girl for 5 years. Though we had some ups and downs, we maintained a happy and strong relationship. Well.. ill be honest with you guys
the girl im with is really.. the nicest way I describe is sensitive. When I mean sensitive she gets doesnt seem to have a very strong outershell to protect herself from mean things people say to her and she just becomes too emotional I guess. I tried helping her cope with it but in the end she had to be in therapy. Well on the the main problem:
Just a few weeks ago, I had a falling out with her. We had a huge argument. Its due to the fact she is becoming a different person and then she says im a different person . She seems more inclined to keep everything to herself rather than us having a discussion about it (which we always used to do). Also theres an ongoing issue with her for the past year that ive tried to get her to stop, which is hanging out with just 1 particular guy who seemed too interested in her. WAY too interested in her. Like literally he tried hitting on her when knowing she has me, tried to give her a necklace, and etc. I wanted to give him a piece of my mind by obviously talking to him but she was like "no no were just friends, he knows it". Fast forward to the falling out, she told me that we should take a break.. out of nowhere.. while im at work... it caused me so much pain but i had to agree. Cant fight it.
Now.. 2 weeks after when she told me we should go on a break, I got to thinking, (because she removed me off facebook, twitter and instragram). I wonder if i followed the guy whos been pursuing her for the past year. I made a fake account (call me crazy :/) and I followed him on twitter... keep in mind his account is protected and also my account was a fake, fakes pictures and info etc.
He then accepted which blew my effin mind. Literally the first few posts that I saw since we had a falling out was about her.. pictures of her literally floated in his twitter. Like... pictures with the word bae (before anyone else) which is what we used to call each other. I literally dropped on my knees as I soaked in what was happening. I saw picture of them in a room together, her holding his head.. this was over the course of febuary 2014 till now. Like.. wtf was I to her, so many thoughts ran in my mind. Another thing is that they call themselves king and queen, apparently its some BS that they do for some group or something with their friends.
Right now, I just honestly need to talk to someone. Sorry for such a long story and do tell me if some of things I said doesnt make sense. Im literally feeling like Ive been wrecked.
Sorry for the long posts, and I hope to see your guys thoughts :).
EDIT: Also the on the guys twitter, it has "Happy 11 months bae , happy 3 months bae and etc". I know who its obviously directed to. We havent spoken in a while due to the break and well.. right know im trying to keep my time occupied by self improvement by exercising (running for 5k a day), just having fun playing games with my friends and "trying" to learn japanese. But in the back of my mind.. it still hurts and I keep thinking about it.