Hi guys, I haven't posted here in a while, and this isn't exactly love related, but it is relationship related.
It seems that everytime I meet a girl, hang out with her, have dinner with her, etc, and get her number/messenger id/kakao id, she always ends up ignoring my messages for some reason, and I can't figure out why. For example, I would meet up with the her (through a friend or a website), and take her out to either lunch or dinner (me paying usually), then the next day I text her something like 'hey hope you had fun last night' or 'I enjoyed hanging out with you' and she just ignores it!!
Its so weird because I don't ever recall saying or doing anything offensive, and she just 'eats' my message (she sees it but doesn't respond). This has happened to me with several girls on numerous occasions where I just ask her a simple 'hey how's it going?' 'would you like to meetup sometime?' and gets ignored.
And then I stop talking to them because they ignored my message and of course they never messages me back (I always message first). Has anyone ever encountered this issue and have any sort of theory what I might be doing wrong? I confirmed with my other guy friends that this never happens to them, even with the same girl, and for some reason I always get shafted.
Again, I don't think I ever did anything wrong to them, I'm not aggressive, and I think conversations with them in person go fairly well. But for some reason after the first meeting they never want to talk to me again. So weird...